Sex Lubes

The Wide World of Lube

Written by: Dr. Brian Steixner

The Wide World of Lube

“No glove, no love”

A saying I am sure we have heard as early as the 6th grade if your parents or health teacher were “cool” while having the birds and the bees talk. For those of us who didn’t have cool parents (myself included), the saying essentially means to always make sure a condom is involved in sex. I know, I know. Thank you Captain Obvious!

But in a world of so many other forms of contraceptives and ways to protect ourselves from unplanned pregnancies, STIs, etc. there is more elbow room to go bareback (if you’re into that sort of thing!) Condom or not, there is one thing that should always be evergreen when it comes to sex: lube!

Perhaps it may be time to update the saying to, “ no lube, no love”? No rhyming scheme, but you still get the fun wordplay with the alliteration. Regardless, life is rough enough, our sex lives shouldn’t be. That is where lube comes in!

Personal lubricants often take center stage in the realm of sexual wellness, yet discussions surrounding lube seem to be taboo. In fact, lube wasn’t even available without a prescription until the 1980s! Many think kink when it comes to lubricants, but even with a kinky connotation, we never kink shame here at Popstar.

Understanding and embracing the role of lubricants can vastly improve sexual experiences whether it's with others or solo dolo. Whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom or enhance comfort in intimate moments, Popstar is back with the tips (and so much more than just the tip) on how to stay slick in the sack!

What are Sex Lubricants?

Before we learn about the various types, we must understand what sex lubricants are! Sex lubricants, colloquially known as lubes, are products designed to reduce friction during sexual activity. They come in various forms, including water-based, silicone-based, oil-based, and hybrid lubricants. Each type has unique properties, making them suitable for different preferences and purposes. Let’s dive in! 

Water-Based Lubricants

Speaking of diving in, up first on our list of lubes is water-based! Water-based lube can put the wet in WAP circa Cardi B. and Meg Thee Stallion. Water-based is among the most popular choices for its compatibility with condoms and sexy toys. It also won’t stain the sheets and there is virtually no cleanup. Additionally, they’re suitable for people with sensitive skin and are less likely to cause irritation or allergic reactions.

Not to be a wet blanket (pun potentially intended), but even with all the pros associated with water-based lubes, there are some cons. Water-based lubricants may require frequent reapplication as they dry out faster than other types, which stops the stream of your freaky flow. That being said, water-based lube is a great place to start for lube noobs.

Something to also note, ironically, water-based lubricants are not great for shower sex as they wash away like…well…water. Something better suited for a shower for two is our next lube.

Silicone-Based Lubricants

Let’s take it to “Silicone Valley” for a moment. Next on the list are silicone-based lubricants. A great way to slick the slide to better explore your partner’s peaks and valleys. Silicone-based lubes offer a silkier texture and are longer lasting than its watery counterpart. Like the Gobstopper of sex. As we previously mentioned, silicone-based lubes are great for shower sex or skinny dipping, due to their water-resistant qualities.

However, things can get a little slippery with silicone-based lubes. While they are compatible with latex condoms, they should not be used on silicone-based toys, as they can degrade the material over time. Though they are long-lasting, they may be harder to wash off and can leave longer-lasting residue on skin or stains on fabric.

Oil-Based Lubricants

A more holistic way to oil your orifices. Oil-based lubes, such as coconut or mineral oil offer a natural alternative with a rich, luxurious feel. They are long-lasting and can be soothing for dry or sensitive skin. While they can soothe your skin, much like silicone-based lubricants, they are not compatible with latex condoms or certain sex toys. With the long-lasting properties comes the potential for stains and a more challenging cleanup.

A fun fact about using coconut oil during sex is the delicious scent. The sweetness of coconut oil can make it smell like you are baking cookies when you are knocking boots. However, it may have you trigger your sweet tooth while you work up an appetite during sex. But hey, that is what Uber Eats is for, right? For post-sex snacks.

Hybrid Lubricants

The best of both lubricant worlds. Hybrid lubes attempt to combine the positive properties of both water-based and silicone-based lubes with longevity and easy cleanup. Another upside to hybrid lubricants is that they are suitable for use with condoms and most sex toys, providing versatility for various sexual activities. Hybrid lubes are a decent choice for those seeking a balanced lubrication experience without the drawbacks associated with specific types. While hybrid lubes are the Prius of penis primers, some people will say that the hybrid-based lubes lose the real individual benefits of water or silicone-based lubes and leave you wishing you stayed with the one you prefer. 

Choosing the Right Lube

Much like anything regarding sex, selecting the right lube depends on individual preferences. Sensitivities and intended use also come into play. Consider the who, what, when, where, and why of your sexcapades. Particular needs of those involved, location, if condoms and sex toys are in play, and avoiding stains on your Egyptian cotton sheets, will all play a role in deciding which lubricant is best for you. Lube can also take some trial and error. It may take some experimentation to find the perfect lube that enhances pleasure and comfort during intimate moments.

Introducing, Popstar Play!

Surprise! You didn’t think we would be orgasm experts and not make our very own lube, did you? Introducing, Popstar Play! Popstar Play is our doctor-approved formula, made right with high-quality ingredients in a cGMP-compliant lab because only the best will do! Popstar Play comes in both silicone-based and water-based so there is something for every pecker’s preference!

Water-Based Popstar Play

Our water-based lube has Olympic swimmer stamina, it is made to last. Popstar Play helps you stay wet longer and avoid those awkward reapplication pauses. As always, this water-based lube makes for easy cleanup, Just a quick rinse with warm water, and you're back to feeling fresh and fabulous. No sticky residue, no greasy aftermath—just pure, clean fun. Popstar Play Water-based is also condom and adult toy-friendly, so this will be an incredible addition to any goodie drawer!

Silicone-Based Popstar Play

If silicone is the way you play then our silicone-based lube is for you. This silky-smooth, long-lasting wonder is like putting your intimate moments on cruise control—just minus the awkwardness of a pit stop. Engineered for epic, slippery sessions, this top-shelf silicone lube is your new BFF for banishing dryness and discomfort, making every encounter feel like you're gliding on a slip 'n slide of bliss. Pool party? Shower fun? No problem—this lube laughs in the face of water. 

Made from the purest, high-grade silicone, this lube is sleek, colorless, odorless, and totally free of those nasty irritants like oil and parabens. Plus, it’s FDA 510K accepted, so you know it’s legit.

Enhancing Pleasure and Comfort

Now we know the types of lubes that are available to us, let's discuss why you would want to use them. Beyond reducing friction, sex lubes can enhance pleasure and intimacy in numerous ways. They can intensify sensation, making sex more enjoyable for both partners. Experimenting with different textures and flavors can also add an element of excitement and novelty to sexual encounters. Additionally, using lube can facilitate the exploration of new positions and activities, promoting open communication and experimentation between partners. Staying slick can keep your sex life spicy!

You think you’re slick now, don’t ya? Sex lubricants play a vital role in sexual wellness, offering enhanced pleasure, comfort, and intimacy for individuals and couples alike. With various lubes available, finding the right one involves considering factors such as texture, longevity, and compatibility. Whether you're looking to spice things up or enhance comfort during intimate moments, incorporating lube into your sexual repertoire can lead to more satisfying and fulfilling experiences.

Embrace the versatility and potential of sex lubes to elevate your sexual encounters and deepen your connection with your partner. We hope this guide to getting slick will help you slip ‘n slide it while you ride it!

Dr. Brian Steixner

Dr. Brian Steixner

Dr. Brian Steixner is a board-certified urologist and an expert in men’s sexual medicine. He completed his General Surgery and Urology training at The University of Pennsylvania and The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, one of the busiest and most comprehensive programs in the nation. During his career, Brian has treated thousands of men with sexual health issues including male factor infertility.

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez is a board-certified urologist who is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. He completed his medical education at Columbia University and his urological residency at the Mount Sinai Medical Center. Throughout his career, Dr. Gonzalez has focused on advocating for sexual health and providing improved healthcare to the LGBTQ+ community.

Frequently Asked Questions

Dr. Gonzalez Answers

Popstar Labs cofounder Dr. Joshua Gonzalez is a board-certified urologist and Sexual Medicine expert, here to answer your questions

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POPSTAR is a men’s sexual health and wellness brand dedicated to improving confidence, pleasure, and effectiveness in the bedroom. Founded and developed by two doctors specializing in sexual medicine, our products help you have the healthiest, confident, and powerful orgasms imaginable.

WHAT DOES POPSTAR VOLUME & TASTE DO?

Popstar is the first physician-formulated daily supplement designed to support complete semen health. Developed by leading urologists specializing in sexual medicine, Popstar promotes semen volume, improves taste and enhances sperm health — all to help create awesomer orgasms!

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Each bottle contains 120 pills and will last 30 days per person when taken as recommended. Popstar should be taken every day for the best results. The recommended dosage is 4 pills once a day with 16 ounces of water. 

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POPSTAR is developing a full array of products that help address real sexual health concerns including semen health, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and sexual confidence — A place where people could find education and solutions from real doctors and with real data. We are here to support you in one goal – leading a healthy and fulfilling sex life and finding your ultimate orgasm.

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