PE 101 : It’s not just about coming early. PE is officially defined as ejaculation that happens sooner than you or your partner would like—typically within one minute of penetration. But the real kicker? The impact it can have on confidence, relationships, and even mental health.

There are two types:

• Lifelong PE : You’ve been fast from the start. Thanks, biology.

• Acquired PE : You used to have control, but something shifted—stress, medical issues, or one too many awkward hook-ups.

The glans penis (aka the head of your penis) is jam-packed with nerve endings. It’s kind of like the VIP section of sensation. That’s great for pleasure—unless it’s a little too sensitive. Cue early ejaculation.

When your dorsal nerve of the penis is hypersensitive, it can create a cascade of sensations that rush you toward orgasm before you’re emotionally—or logistically—ready. That’s where the idea of penile sensitivity reduction comes in.

Before you go full Grey’s Anatomy down there, let’s make sure we’ve ruled out the non-invasive stuff:

• Delay sprays : Shoutout to Popstar Labs Delay Spray. A few spritzes and suddenly you’re a tantric god.

• Topical anesthetics : Same idea, just without the Popstar swagger.

• SSRIs : Meds like paroxetine or sertraline can increase intravaginal ejaculatory latency time (IELT), though they may also kill your vibe in other ways.

• Therapy : Sometimes it’s in your head. No shame in seeing someone about it.

• Behavioral training : Stop-start, squeeze, and yes, edging are all on the table.

Tried all that? Didn’t work? Cool. Let’s talk premature ejaculation surgery (Glans Desensitization Surgery).

This isn’t your average snip-snip. Glans desensitization surgery involves targeting and modifying specific penile nerves to lower sensation—usually through selective dorsal neurectomy (SDN). This reduces sensitivity in the glans without fully cutting you off from pleasure.

It’s not a guarantee, but for the right guy, it can be a game-changer.

The Goal:

• Extend IELT

• Reduce glans penis sensitivity

• Keep enough feeling to still enjoy the ride

You might be a fit for glans desensitization surgery if:

• Your PE is mainly caused by glans hypersensitivity

• You’ve tried everything else

• You’re healthy enough for minor surgery

• You have realistic expectations (this won’t make you a porn star overnight)

Oh, and if you’re hoping it’ll fix a struggling relationship or make you feel like more of a man—therapy’s your real MVP.

The Main Event: Selective Dorsal Neurectomy

• Local or general anesthesia

• Small incision on the shaft

• Microsurgical identification of dorsal nerve of the penis

• Partial nerve interruption = reduced sensitivity

• Stitches and sterile dressing

Surgery time: ~1-2 hours 

Outpatient: Yep, you go home the same day.

There are also newer penile desensitization techniques, like nerve blocks and glans augmentation, but SDN is the gold standard for now.

Let’s get real about potential curveballs:

• Numbness or too little sensation

• Pain, especially nerve pain

• Infection or bleeding

• Unsatisfying results

• Scar tissue

And let’s not forget: nerve damage is permanent. This isn’t a trial run. There’s no Control+Z down there.

• Expect swelling, bruising, and mild pain for a few days
• No sex or solo action for 4–6 weeks
• Light physical activity after one week
• Follow-ups to monitor healing

Your surgeon will give you the rundown on wound care, activity restrictions, and what kind of underwear to avoid (hint: probably not leather).

Some studies show success rates of 50% to 80% for increased IELT . But it depends on the surgeon’s skill, your unique anatomy, and whether you’re also working through psychological aspects.

If your penile hypersensitivity is truly the culprit, this surgery might buy you time in bed and confidence in your body.

Even if the glans desensitization surgery physically works, it won’t fix a lack of communication, trust issues, or anxiety. Keep a therapist on speed dial. And maybe schedule some couples sessions too.

Also: managing expectations is crucial. This isn’t a one-way ticket to marathon sex. It’s a support tool, not a miracle.

Still not sold on surgery? You’ve got options:

• Popstar Delay Spray (your non-surgical MVP)

• Pelvic floor therapy

• Kegels (yes, men can do them too)

• Natural supplements like Kanna or Alpha Herb

A multi-pronged approach—psychological, physical, and yes, pharmacological—often yields the best results.

If you’re curious about surgical treatment for PE, talk to a urologist who specializes in sexual medicine. Don’t skip the therapy, and definitely don’t skip the consent forms. And if you’re not quite ready to go under the knife, Popstar Delay Spray might be all you need to keep the party going.