Morning Sex May Be Your Secret Career Weapon

Morning Sex: The Secret to Getting Promotions and Pay Raises

Written by: Dr. Brian Steixner

Key Takeaways

Morning sex can boost productivity, confidence, and mood

Science links orgasms to better focus, lower stress, and more energy

Morning sex doesn't need to be complicated or long to count

Whether solo or partnered, morning pleasure is a wellness hack worth trying

Popstar Delay Spray, Volume + Taste, and Lubricants can enhance the experience

Let’s be honest. Most productivity advice is a snooze fest. Wake up early. Drink lemon water. Meditate. Journal. Check your email inbox before your brain cells even clock in. But there’s one thing no one is telling you—the real secret to starting your day like an absolute boss might be morning sex.

That’s right. Science (and some very perky researchers) say that getting busy before your first meeting could actually make you more successful. We're talking mood boosts, increased confidence, better focus, and yes, potentially a leg up when it comes to promotions and pay raises.

So if you're tired of cold brew and bullet journals being your only pre-work ritual, grab your lube, stretch those hammies, and let’s talk about why morning sex might be the most underrated part of your hustle.

What Even Counts as Morning Sex?

Before we start handing out raises with every orgasm, let’s get one thing clear. Morning sex doesn’t require a full-blown 45-minute tantric session at sunrise. It could be:

  • A lazy makeout that turns into a quickie

  • A steamy shower session

  • A solo moment with your favorite toy

  • Waking up already halfway there (thank you, morning wood)

  • A cuddle that escalates appropriately

It’s not about technique. It’s about timing. Morning sex means any kind of orgasmic action that happens before you start your day—and preferably before your inbox does.

So... Can Morning Sex Really Help You Get Promoted?

Here’s what the research says:

1. Boosts Endorphins and Mood

Sex increases dopamine and serotonin. Translation? You feel good. Like, “Maybe I can finish that expense report without rage-quitting” good. A better mood means you're less reactive, more patient, and generally more pleasant to be around—which your boss will notice.

2. Raises Testosterone Levels

Testosterone spikes naturally in the morning—and sex amplifies it. That means higher drive, better focus, and more motivation throughout the day. And if you’re taking Popstar’s Volume + Taste Supplement? You’re giving your body even more support to show up strong and stay sharp.

3. Boosts Confidence and Charisma

Orgasms release oxytocin, which increases feelings of trust and connection. That makes your interactions more magnetic and helps you navigate meetings with that irresistible I-got-some energy. Think of it as nature’s version of a confidence serum, minus the weird side effects.

4. Reduces Stress and Anxiety

Sex is a natural stress reducer. Getting off in the morning helps set a calmer tone for the rest of the day. You’re less likely to snap at your inbox or panic in a Zoom call when you’ve already had your first release of the day.

The Corporate Orgasm Gap: Why We’re Not All Doing It

If morning sex is so good for our professional lives, why isn’t everyone setting their alarm for it?

Here’s what’s standing in the way:

  • Mornings are chaos: Kids, pets, group texts, and your partner hogging the covers

  • Libido lag: Not everyone wakes up feeling frisky

  • Time crunch: You hit snooze three times. We get it.

  • Body shame or pressure to perform: Morning breath and mismatched libidos can make it awkward

But here’s the thing—morning sex doesn’t need to be a production. It can be quick, playful, and as simple as a shared makeout or mutual touch. No script. No pressure. No performance review.

Morning Sex, But Make It Popstar

Want to make your morning sessions even more productive (and enjoyable)? Here’s how Popstar can help:

Popstar Personal Lubricants

Morning sex often means less foreplay and less prep time. Lube keeps things smooth, comfortable, and mess-free—especially if you’re still half-asleep and fumbling.

Popstar Delay Spray

Stretch that session out—even if your calendar’s tight. Our delay spray helps you stay in control and last longer, without sacrificing sensation. Great for morning quickies that turn into power hours.

Popstar Volume + Taste Supplement

Feel like a champ with every finish. Customers say this boosts their confidence, improves taste, and delivers more satisfying endings. Start your day with a bigger splash.

Tips for Morning Sex Success

Want to make morning sex your new pre-work ritual? Here’s how to get the most from it:

  • Skip the snooze and use that time for a different kind of alarm

  • Make shower sex your jam—clean, steamy, and minimal cleanup

  • Use toys or oral if penetration feels like too much pre-coffee

  • Set boundaries and time limits so you’re not late to work or burned out by 10am

  • Solo counts too—masturbation delivers many of the same benefits

  • Be flexible—some days it’s a kiss and a squeeze, some days it’s a full performance review

Conclusion: You Snooze, You Lose (Your Orgasm)

If you're chasing the next promotion, pay raise, or just want to feel like a sexier version of yourself at work, morning sex might be your new secret weapon. It's not about being horny for capitalism. It's about investing in your energy, mood, and confidence so you can show up as your best self—on and off the clock.

And if you’re worried you don’t have time? You’d be surprised what two consenting adults (or one focused solo session) can pull off in seven minutes flat.

FAQ: Morning Sex and Productivity

What is morning sex?

Morning sex refers to any type of sexual activity that happens after waking up and before starting your day. It can be partnered or solo, and ranges from quickies to full sessions.


How does morning sex improve work performance?

Morning sex boosts mood-enhancing hormones like dopamine and serotonin, increases testosterone, reduces stress, and helps you feel more confident and focused.


Can morning sex actually help with getting a promotion?

While it’s not a guaranteed path to the corner office, starting your day with morning sex can improve your mood, confidence, and communication skills—all things that make you more promotable.

Is morning sex only for people in relationships?

Nope. Solo sessions count too. Masturbation offers many of the same mental and emotional benefits, including stress reduction and mood improvement.

What if I don’t feel turned on in the morning?

Libido varies by time of day and body type. You can explore ways to gently wake up your desire, like cuddling, mutual touch, or using toys. And if it’s not your thing, that’s valid too.

How long should morning sex last?

There’s no “ideal” length. Some people have quickies under five minutes. Others enjoy longer sessions if time allows. It’s about what feels good for you and your schedule.

Does testosterone really peak in the morning?

Yes. People with penises tend to have higher testosterone levels in the early morning hours, which can naturally boost desire, energy, and focus.

Can Popstar products make morning sex better?

Yes. Popstar Delay Spray helps extend sessions, Volume + Taste enhances the finish, and our lubricants keep everything smooth and comfortable—even during a sleepy start.

What are the benefits of morning orgasms?

Orgasms in the morning can set a positive tone for your day. They help regulate mood, reduce anxiety, and provide a sense of satisfaction that carries into your work and personal life.

Is it okay to skip traditional morning routines for sex?

Absolutely. If sex helps you feel more grounded, confident, and focused than journaling or pushups, it's a valid (and effective) part of your morning wellness ritual.

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez is a board-certified urologist who is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. He completed his medical education at Columbia University and his urological residency at the Mount Sinai Medical Center. Throughout his career, Dr. Gonzalez has focused on advocating for sexual health and providing improved healthcare to the LGBTQ+ community.

Dr. Brian Steixner

Dr. Brian Steixner

Dr. Brian Steixner is a board-certified urologist and an expert in men’s sexual medicine. He completed his General Surgery and Urology training at The University of Pennsylvania and The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, one of the busiest and most comprehensive programs in the nation. During his career, Brian has treated thousands of men with sexual health issues including male factor infertility.