Can Weed Help You Last Longer in Bed? Let’s Blaze Into It

Can Weed Help You Last Longer in Bed? Let’s Blaze Into It

Written by: Dr. Brian Steixner

Key Takeaways

Cannabis might help with premature ejaculation by reducing anxiety and heightening awareness.

Effects vary wildly depending on dose, strain, mindset, and individual biology.

Side effects include anxiety, erectile dysfunction, or a crashed libido.

There’s not enough scientific research to give a definitive yes or no.

Best used in tandem with other PE treatments like Popstar Delay Spray.

If you’ve ever found yourself finishing the fun before your partner even gets warmed up, you’re not alone. Premature ejaculation (PE) affects 20 to 30 percent of adult men—and we’re not talking about the enthusiastic teen years here. PE can sneak up at any age, turning sexy time into a stress test and making you wonder if you’ve been cursed by the gods of unsatisfying climax.

Enter cannabis. Yep, your chill little green friend. Weed’s getting a reputation for more than just enhancing music and making snacks disappear. Anecdotal evidence and cultural whispers suggest that marijuana could help manage PE. But can cannabis actually give you better control over your climax, or is it just blowing smoke?

Let’s roll through the facts, the folklore, and the freaky. We're diving deep into the relationship between marijuana, THC, and sexual performance to find out, can weed help you last longer in bed?

What Exactly Is Premature Ejaculation?

Before we get high on science, let’s define our terms.

Premature ejaculation happens when a man climaxes sooner than he or his partner would prefer—usually within a minute or two of sexual activity starting. There are two kinds:

  • Primary (lifelong) : It's been happening since the first time you got naked with someone else.

  • Secondary (acquired) : It starts later in life, often triggered by stress, health changes, or relationships that need more than just couples’ therapy.

The common thread? A lack of control, performance anxiety, and frustration. PE can be driven by psychological pressures, hormonal shifts, or even inflammation of your favorite plumbing parts (we’re looking at you, prostate). It’s complicated—like Facebook relationship statuses used to be.

Why Are People Turning to Cannabis?

Cannabis isn’t new to the bedroom. Ancient Ayurvedic texts, tantra rituals, and more than a few stoner love songs have celebrated marijuana’s sensual side.

Fast-forward to today: weed’s legal(ish), widely available, and comes with a sexy menu of strains and effects. So it’s no surprise that more people are asking, “Can cannabis help me last longer in bed?”

Weed may help with PE by targeting anxiety, heightening body awareness, and changing your perception of time. But there’s another side to the story—some users report that cannabis makes things worse, not better.

Let’s break it down.

How Cannabis Works (AKA Weed Science 101)

Marijuana contains a buffet of cannabinoids. The big two you’ve heard of:

  • THC (Tetrahydrocannabinol) : The psychoactive headliner. Gets you high, maybe horny, and sometimes anxious.

  • CBD (Cannabidiol) : The chill cousin. Doesn’t get you high, but may take the edge off.

THC binds to receptors in your brain and body, including areas that regulate mood, stress, and arousal. This is where things get interesting—especially in the bedroom.

THC’s Hits and Misses:

Hit : Reduced anxiety, relaxation, increased tactile sensation, altered time perception

Miss : Paranoia, lower libido, erectile issues, or even sedation so deep you forget you were mid-thrust

The keyword here is dose. A little may make you a love god. A lot might turn you into a snack-seeking zombie who forgot there was a partner involved.

The Good: How Weed Might Help With PE

1. Bye-Bye, Bedroom Anxiety

One of the most talked-about benefits of cannabis and sexual function is anxiety relief. THC can calm the nerves that lead to early ejaculation, giving your brain a much-needed chill pill.

2. More Zen, Less Zoom

THC might help you get into a slower, more mindful sexual rhythm. Cannabis and orgasm control might go hand-in-hand if you can tune into your body's signals.

3. Time Warp Sexy Edition

Ever felt like time stretched out forever after a few puffs? That perception shift could make sex feel longer—even if the stopwatch says otherwise.

4. Sensory Dial-Down

Some users say THC makes them less sensitive, which can be a plus for guys who climax too quickly from even the lightest touch. Think of it as a mild buffer for hypersensitive hardware.

5. Let’s Get Closer, Baby

Cannabis and relationship intimacy are closely tied. If you and your partner are vibing on the same strain, it could boost your connection, lower performance pressure, and make sex less clinical, more cuddly.

The Not-So-Good: When Weed Goes Wrong in Bed

1. Paranoia Is the Mood Killer

Not everyone gets chill on cannabis. If your anxiety shoots up, the whole sexual vibe might nosedive into awkward-town.

2. Libido on Snooze

While some strains turn people into sex machines, others just make you want to nap with a sandwich. Libido isn’t guaranteed to go up—it might fall asleep before you do.

3. Cannabis-Induced ED? It’s a Thing

Cannabis and erectile function don’t always play nice. Some studies suggest that regular use can make it harder to rise to the occasion.

4. The Tolerance Trap

Use too often and you might need more to get the same effect. That’s when weed stops being your sexy sidekick and starts being... a needy ex.

5. Still Illegal in Some Places

Let’s not forget: marijuana isn’t legal everywhere. And even where it is, talking to your doctor about using weed for PE might get some raised eyebrows.

What Does Science Say?

Short answer: not enough. We need more studies—especially on marijuana and premature ejaculation specifically.

What we do know:

  • The endocannabinoid system plays a role in mood, arousal, and sexual response.

  • THC may influence this system, but it can go both ways.

  • Most research is anecdotal or based on small surveys.

So until we get clinical trials with lab coats and clipboards, most guidance will come from personal experimentation and, yes, Reddit threads.

How to Use Cannabis (If You Want to Try It for PE)

1. Go Low, Go Slow

Seriously. This isn’t a game of "How high can I get?" It’s about finding the sweet spot before you get too weird to finish.

2. Choose the Right Strain

Indicas are typically more relaxing. Sativas may be more stimulating. Hybrids are the middle path. Bonus points if you find marijuana strains for intimacy that don't make you anxious or sleepy.

3. Skip the Edibles (at least at first)

They can take hours to kick in and might last way longer than your stamina. Inhale if you want faster onset and easier dose control.

4. Track Your Experience

Keep a sex-and-weed journal. Strain, dose, method, setting, performance. You’re basically a scientist now. A sexy one.

Is Weed a Long-Term Solution?

Let’s keep it real. Cannabis can be part of a toolkit, but it’s not a miracle cure. If you're looking for something scientifically backed, consider Popstar Labs Delay Spray, pelvic floor physical therapy, or behavioral techniques like the start-stop method.

Conclusion: Should You Light Up Before You Get Down?

Cannabis might be your sexy sidekick—or your buzzkill. The relationship between weed and premature ejaculation is still being explored, but early clues suggest THC could help some people relax, lengthen their experience, and feel more connected.

Then again, others may find it messes with their drive, performance, or mental clarity.

If you're curious, start slow, communicate clearly, and track your results. Stay curious, stay safe, and don’t forget: great sex is about more than performance. It’s about connection, pleasure, and showing up—however that looks for you.

FAQs: Can Weed Help You Last Longer in Bed?

Does cannabis always help with premature ejaculation?

Nope. Some people get more control, others get more anxious. It’s a personal journey.

What’s the best strain for sexual performance?

Look for balanced hybrids or THC-CBD blends that don’t spike anxiety. Avoid heavy indicas if they make you too sleepy.

Is cannabis better than delay spray for PE?

If you want predictable results, go with Popstar Delay Spray. Weed’s effects are too variable for most people to rely on.

Can weed mess with my erections?

Yes, especially at high doses or with frequent use. It’s not just urban legend—some studies back this up.

Can I use cannabis and Popstar Delay Spray together?

Sure, as long as you’re being safe and communicative with your partner. Just don’t forget which pocket the spray’s in.

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez

Dr. Joshua Gonzalez is a board-certified urologist who is fellowship-trained in Sexual Medicine and specializes in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. He completed his medical education at Columbia University and his urological residency at the Mount Sinai Medical Center. Throughout his career, Dr. Gonzalez has focused on advocating for sexual health and providing improved healthcare to the LGBTQ+ community.

Dr. Brian Steixner

Dr. Brian Steixner

Dr. Brian Steixner is a board-certified urologist and an expert in men’s sexual medicine. He completed his General Surgery and Urology training at The University of Pennsylvania and The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, one of the busiest and most comprehensive programs in the nation. During his career, Brian has treated thousands of men with sexual health issues including male factor infertility.