How to Use a Delay Spray: The Popstar Guide to Lasting Longer in Bed

Because finishing early isn’t always cute. If you’ve ever gone from “let’s go” to “oh no” in record time, welcome to the club. Premature ejaculation (PE) happens to millions of men—and not just once or twice. Enter: the delay spray .

This mighty little bottle delivers lidocaine straight to the source (yes, we mean your penis), slightly numbing the surface so you can stay in the game longer—without popping pills, chanting affirmations, or trying to think about baseball mid-thrust.

Lidocaine is like that chill friend who calms everyone down at the party. It blocks sodium channels in your superficial nerves, slowing the “GO NOW” signals from your penis to your brain.

The result? You still feel pleasure, but it’s like watching in slow-mo. Sexy, strategic slow-mo.

Most delay sprays work on the first few millimeters of skin, meaning you’ll stay aware and aroused without tapping out too early. It’s a balancing act—less “numb zombie” and more “zen master of thrust control.”

Let’s break it down.

Most over-the-counter (OTC delay sprays) contain 7 to 10 mg of lidocaine per pump (around 10 percent concentration). Some come with extra perks—like aloe or vitamin E—for soothing, skin-friendly vibes. Others sport fancy misting nozzles that help with more even, mess-free coverage.

If you want the gold standard, Popstar Labs Delay Spray delivers strong, clean results—no gross taste, no weird smell, and absolutely latex-safe. Check the label for:

• Condom compatibility (a must)

• Maximum dosage per day

• Active ingredients and percent lidocaine

And don’t forget, some folks still want the bells and whistles. Chamomile? Sure. Vitamin E? Why not. But the real test is performance, not packaging.

We know you’re eager, but don’t skip this part. Spray a single pump on the inside of your forearm and wait 15 minutes. If you’re suddenly channeling Poison Ivy—itching, redness, hives—abort mission and talk to your doctor.

Have liver issues, irregular heart rhythms, or a known lidocaine allergy? Same deal. Chat with a healthcare provider before going full spray-n-play.

And for the love of all things sexy, keep it out of reach of kids. Explaining “Why does your toddler have numb lips?” to an ER doctor is no one’s idea of a good time.

Your penis deserves a little spa treatment. Wash with mild soap and warm water, then pat completely dry . Moisture dilutes lidocaine and slows absorption, which defeats the whole purpose.

Shake the bottle, hold it upright, and aim about two inches from your business. Some prefer to apply flaccid, others semi-erect. Either works—but semi-erect can help you target the frenulum and glans with more precision.

Repeat after us: start low, go slow .

• Beginners: 2–3 sprays

• If you’re super sensitive: 4–6 sprays

• Never exceed 10 per session (seriously, don’t)

Overdoing it can lead to numbness that lasts too long—or worse, systemic side effects like dizziness and metallic taste. This isn’t a numbing contest. Keep it sexy, not sketchy.

Once applied, let it absorb for at least 10 minutes —no rubbing, no smearing, no pants. This is your moment of chill. Fan it dry if you’re impatient.

Once it feels matte (not wet), you’re good to go. A little extra sensitivity? Wait 15 to 20 minutes. Want a side of oral? Keep reading.

Here’s the deal: wipe off excess before penetration or oral play. Use a dry tissue or damp cloth to remove unabsorbed spray. You’ll avoid accidentally numbing your partner’s genitals—or their tongue. Not hot.

Using a condom? Slip it on after wiping. Most delay spray with condoms works fine if the formula is latex-friendly, but leftover spray can act like lube and cause slippage. Cue awkward pauses and carpet-burned knees.

Expect a slight tingle, coolness, and softening of intense sensations. Your pleasure will feel a little more muted—but still very much present.

Delay spray duration usually lasts 30 to 60 minutes, giving you plenty of time for exploration, connection, and a strong finish. If it feels too numb, cut back a pump next time or shorten the wait window.

A little heads-up goes a long way. Let your partner know you’re using delay spray so they understand what’s happening, especially if oral is part of the plan.

Pro tip: Turn the 10-minute wait into a sexy interlude—think massages, kissing, or focus on their pleasure. Build anticipation while your penis powers up for a longer ride.

Mild and common:

• Tingling

• Cool sensation

• Skin flushing

Rare but serious:

• Burning

• Blistering

• Dizziness, double vision, ringing ears

If anything feels off, rinse and skip the session. If delay spray side effects persist, see your doctor. Your safety—and your sex life—deserve attention.

Delay spray is a tool, not a cure. Use it alongside:

• Kegels : strengthen those pelvic muscles

• Start-stop : learn your body's signals

• Mindfulness/breathwork : calm your nerves

• SSRIs or therapy : for long-term help if needed

Think of it as your PE pit crew—giving you control while you retrain your response.

Myth : Delay spray kills all feeling.
Fact : Not if used correctly. You'll still feel—it’ll just take longer to get there.

Myth : It’s only for straight men.
Fact : Everyone with a penis can benefit. Gay, straight, bi, pan, ace—we love inclusive pleasure.

Myth : All delay sprays are the same.
Fact : Nope. Quality matters. Go with tested brands that are doctor-formulated like Popstar Labs Delay Spray to avoid mystery numbness.

Using a delay spray isn’t cheating—it’s strategic. It’s like a turbo boost for your sex life, giving you the control you’ve always wanted without sacrificing pleasure. Whether you’re lasting longer for your partner or reclaiming confidence after too many quick endings, this little bottle can change the game.

So wash, spray, wait, and slay.