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How to Make a Woman Squirt: Tips & Techniques for Mind-Blowing Pleasure

Written by: Dr. Brian Steixner

Key Takeaways

Communication is crucial: Talk openly and make sure she’s comfortable.

G-spot stimulation is key: Master the "come hither" motion.

Combine techniques: Clitoral + G-spot stimulation = higher chance of squirting.

Relaxation matters: Help her let go of mental barriers.

Every body is different: Focus on what feels good, not just the end goal.

Squirting 101: What Is It, Really?

Squirting—it's one of those topics that sparks curiosity, debate, and, let’s be honest, a bit of mystery. Is it real? (Yes.) Is it pee? (Nope.) Is it worth exploring? Absolutely. Female ejaculation refers to the release of fluid from the urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm, originating from the Skene’s glands (aka the female prostate). Not every woman squirts, but many can with the right combination of technique, relaxation, and communication. So, let’s dive in—no pun intended.

Debunking Squirting Myths

Let’s clear up some common squirting misconceptions before you read on for the steps on how to make a woman squirt and become the self-proclaimed "Sultan of Squirting":

  • "It’s just pee!" — Science says otherwise. While the fluid comes from the urethra, it’s chemically distinct from urine. Think of it as the body's way of throwing a wet and wild party.

  • "Only certain women can squirt." — With the right mindset and techniques, many women have the potential. It’s not a secret club; there’s no membership fee.

  • "Squirting always means orgasm." — Surprise! It doesn’t. Some women squirt without reaching orgasm, while others may orgasm without squirting. Bodies are magical like that.

Steps to Make a Woman Squirt

Step 1: Set the Mood — Because Ambiance Matters

Think of this as setting the stage for a mind-blowing concert. Dim lights, soft music, maybe some candles—but no pressure to reenact a rom-com montage unless you’re into that. Comfort and communication are key. Talk to her about what you’re exploring and ensure she feels safe and relaxed.

Tips for Creating the Right Atmosphere:

  • Talk it out: "Hey, how do you feel about trying this?" goes a long way.

  • Towel time: Things can get splashy. Save your sheets—lay down a towel.

  • Deep breaths: Encourage her to breathe deeply and relax into the experience.

Step 2: Nail the "Come Hither" G-Spot Technique

If you take away one thing from this guide: the G-spot is your VIP pass. Located about 2-3 inches inside on the upper vaginal wall, it swells when aroused.

How to Stimulate the G-Spot:

  1. Foreplay first: She needs to be warmed up. Think appetizers before the main course.

  2. Lube is your best friend: Natural or water-based lubricants make everything smoother. (Psst... Popstar Personal Lubricant is a game-changer.)

  3. Two-finger salute: Insert two fingers and curl them in a "come hither" motion.

  4. Increase gradually: Speed and pressure can be adjusted as she gets more aroused. Patience is sexy.

  5. Watch for cues: She may feel like she needs to pee—that’s your sign to keep going.

Step 3: Add Clitoral Stimulation — Double the Pleasure

For many women, combining clitoral and G-spot stimulation is the secret sauce. Use your thumb or a vibrator on her clitoris while your fingers focus on the G-spot.

Other Techniques to Explore:

  • Thrusting motions: Some prefer a rhythmic thrust over the "come hither" motion.

  • Oral and manual combo: Tongue on the clitoris + fingers inside = winning combo.

  • Experiment with angles: Adjust to find what works best. It’s not one-size-fits-all.

Step 4: Encourage Her to Let Go — Mentally and Physically

Many women hold back from squirting due to fear of "peeing" or making a mess. Your job? Be reassuring and patient.

How to Help Her Let Go:

  • Verbal encouragement: "You’re doing amazing—let go and enjoy it."

  • Stay consistent: Maintain rhythm once she’s close. Switching it up at the finish line is a rookie move.

  • Remind her of control: If she feels overwhelmed, slow down or pause.

Step 5: Spot the Signs She’s Close

How do you know you’re almost there? Watch for these telltale cues:

  • Increased breathing and moaning

  • Tension in her legs and pelvic area

  • Urge to push you away (counterintuitive, but stay the course if she’s okay with it)

  • Swelling sensation in the G-spot

  • A warm, rushing feeling followed by fluid release

Beyond Squirting: Enhancing Female Orgasms

Squirting is fun, but it's not the only goal. Focus on overall pleasure and intimacy.

Types of Female Orgasms:

  • Clitoral orgasm: Most common and typically easiest to achieve.

  • G-spot orgasm: Deeper, full-body pleasure.

  • A-spot orgasm: Deeper inside, often leads to intense orgasms.

  • Blended orgasm: G-spot + clitoris = fireworks.

Ways to Intensify Pleasure:

  • Edging: Tease her close to orgasm and back off repeatedly.

  • Switch positions: Some angles make hitting the G-spot a breeze.

  • Sex toys: Vibrators and dildos can up the ante.

  • Vocal encouragement: Moaning and dirty talk can heighten arousal.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take to make a woman squirt?

It varies. Some women squirt within minutes, others need more time. The journey is part of the fun.

Is female ejaculation safe?

Totally. It’s a natural bodily response and nothing to worry about.

Does every woman squirt?

Nope—and that’s okay. Focus on pleasure, not results.

What if she feels like she needs to pee?

That’s common. Reassure her it’s normal and encourage her to relax and let go.

Should I use lube?

Yes. Lube reduces friction and increases comfort. Check out Popstar Personal Lubricants for a silky-smooth experience.

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